In particular, he keeps bringing up the fight we had after he kept smiling at another woman and she kept smiling back at him.
After that fight, I never nagged him or gotten mad at him for staring at anything else.
Now, several months later, he brought up twice and we've fought twice. He said he wants to be able to laugh about past squabbles and wants to know that this is okay. He said he wants to feel accepted and know that he what he did was okay. He wants to feel like he's good boyfriend.
I don't think staring at other women and smiling at them to flirt with them is okay, but I stayed with him and stopped getting mad at him when he stares because I trust him. I just don't think the way he keeps re-hashing it is not funny, and we keep fighting (he told me fuck you in public) when keeps bringing this up.
The other times have been really fun and loving. How do I get him to stop bringing up this particular topic?
Most Helpful Guy
Bizarre that it's a guy doing this to a girl - usually it's a girl who brings up previous fights and holds them over the guy as a cheap and nasty tactic.
I'd tell him that the past should start staying there or else you'll be in his past too. Fighting and swearing at each other in public is not cool.0
Most Helpful Girl
tell it bothers you.. accept how I am or leave...0