My boyfriend is always straight-up about everything. He doesn't lie. So when my boyfriend (23) and I first started dating he said "oh I'd fuck her" (talking about his old babysitter who's almost 30) but later said he was joking. I don't know how it got brought up again about 7 months later today, but I brought it up again.
He said "if I was single, I would" and I said "do you want to be" he said "no, I'm pretty happy where I am" and I was like "would you still now?" And he said "if I was single or if I was with you?" And I said "both". He replied with "no"(about if he would fuck her). Straight-up told me no.
Should I still feel upset about this? I know he said he would if he was single but he did say no when I asked if he would either way. I know that he wouldn't lie to me and that if he wanted someone else, he wouldn't be with me. I feel like he was joking. Would you guys be upset about this? I'm just a really sensitive person. I personally think that he meant if he was single, which he isn't, he would obviously fuck other girls, but he doesn't want to be single and he's with me. He tells me that if he was interested in other girls he wouldn't be with me. What do you guys think?
- Yes, you should be upset.Vote A
- No, he's with you. He doesn't want anyone else.Vote B
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This is a time where it would be a waste of energy to get worked up over it. You have given multiple reasons why you shouldn't be upset. I don't think you really are upset (though it's okay if you are. I totally get where you're coming from and how difficult it is to be a sensitive human).1
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