Why is it so hard to get one? I really don't know why. Im not unattractive. Im a little taller then average, dont look super lanky and thin. And have a little muscle on me. Every one has the things they dont like about themselves (doesnt mean im gonna share them with you). But I dont think im a total turn off. I play sports, have good personal hygiene, and dont disconnect myself from society (aka, dont live under a rock). But there is just something that doesn't allow me to get a girlfreind, and I just dont know what it is. I dont know if its the people i talk to and hang with at school. Or if its just the way i do things. Im not insecure about how i look, im pretty masculin. Im a normal guy that just can't seem to find a girlfriend. And ya i know they dont just line up for you. And that i actually have to look for one. But i dont really have any better way then to just talk to one. Which i can't really do cause i dont hang out with any. Its hard for me to just become friends with a girl since they are already part of a group of people who are just different then me. And the last time I actually tried to have a gfriend that was a girl (in that specific order), she basically didn't have a clue on what dating is and what having a relationship was like. Beacause her personal goals were school and no time for dating (which is what she assumed i was asking). So I dont know what my problem is, but if you could please share your opinions or personal experiences on this, please do!
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I noticed that you go on about your appearances. But females don't only date people for their appearances. How you act around them also affects it. People you hang out with, things you do, who you're trying to go after. It all comes into play. Yes, personal appearances and health are important, but they're not the only things people care about. And a lot of things have to line up in order to get a relationship. Like if she's looking for a relationship, if she's into you, if it's the right timing, and so much more.
My ex girlfriend and I, it took two years before we got together. Mainly because it was the wrong time, when one was in a relationship, the other was single, when we were both single, we both had our lives to finish sorting out, and so much more. But we dated after that. Lasted a while too. So it really depends on a lot of things.0
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