How do you guys feel if the girl is dominant on the relationship?
Guys should be more dominant
35% (7) 23% (6) 28% (13) Vote
Girls should be more dominant
10% (2) 15% (4) 13% (6) Vote
55% (11) 62% (16) 59% (27) Vote
And you are?
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Updates: Most Helpful Guy
I'm not voting because it "shouldn't" be anything.
There are no set rules to defining your role in a relationship. Certain things come natural to each individual- whether that's submission, dominance, or an equal split. If you try to conform to something you are not it's bound to fail. Most Helpful Girl
i want a relationship where we're a team. i don't ever want to feel like i wear the pants all the time. I've experienced that shit twice and it's ridiculous. like surely i can't be that challenging to some people -.-
What Guys Said 10
There is no "should" about it unless you are saying that it should be whatever works for the people in the relationship. My mother is dominant in my parents relationship, I am dominant in my relationship both work beautifully. It is more about finding the right match to your own personality than it is about who "should" be dominant.
I think the term "dominance" in a relationship is an overtrivialization with negative consequences.
I voted C) because I don't define dominance in a relationship, it just doesn't make sense to me.
Impossible to answer. It SHOULD be whatever it is that is natural for the couple
Sounds like fun to me although i do think i would like it if it was -
girl 65%-boy 35% in my relationship.
If she is dominant, I am sort of okay unless she wants to drill me with a huge strap-up.
If a girl is more dominant in the relationship you feel like a little kid and she is the mom.
I'm submissive, so I'd love a girl who is dominant.
I'd say it was nice to meet you, bye.
The only dominant one in each situation is the one with the most efficient decision.
What Girls Said 4
Whatever the couple wants, in my opinion. I'm the dominant one in my relationship, and I love it (my boyfriend loves being submissive).
But if someone prefers "traditional" roles where the man is dominant, then I don't mind either. I just wouldn't date those people.
It should be whatever the f*ck the two people want it to be. Who cares and who makes up the rules of your life but YOU?
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