So I caught a glimpse of my boyfriend's phone while he was on it the other day, and I saw that he'd been having text conversations late into the night with this girl (he'd never mentioned this girl to me and most of the messages he'd sent to her had been sent between 11:00 pm and 3:00 am. I also noticed that their texts each had a single kiss on the end of them.
Now, I don't know who this girl is, but does it sounds like I have anything to worry about? Should I ask him about this?
Could there be a chance this girl is only a friend though? I just can't imagine him ever being unfaithful!
Bad signs: He's hiding her. He's only messaging her late at night. He's sending a flirtatious character at the end of each message.
Good signs: You think he's trustworthy.
I'd definitely be asking about this other girl. If she's just a friend, then he'll explain with no problem, surely. Be sure to ask what the kissy faces mean to him too. Seems flirtatious to you. Seems flirtatious to me. Is it somehow not flirtatious to him?
Well coming from the same situation, I'd say get ready to leave. My ex repeatedly texted other dudes and her excuse was they texted me first or we're just joking. I stuck around because I hoped for the best because I have a babygirl with her. Waiting for things to change, it never did. Don't waste your time. I know its hard to leave but things will just get even worse most of the time