They easily get creeped out by the most simplest things like the word hello, they don't respond to you when you message them whether it's in a chatroom or on fb and sometimes they do this on purpose to provoke you.
Thats why I have convinced myself that talking to girls is a waste of time because 1. They don't reply unless you look "attractive" and 2. They just assume you are a creepy pervert or make other baseless assumptions about you. Please make up your minds do you want people to be friendly or do you want people to be mean and angry? Because you seem to be creeped out by friendlyness and when I say friendlyness I mean telling jokes and saying hello.
This is also why I refrain from joining online dating sites because no matter what I say or how I present myself I will get ignored. Congratulaitions feminists you have won your war on men, you have succeeded in instilling fear in women and brainwashed them to beleive every man is a creepy pervert unless they look like brad pitt.
Most Helpful Girl
Dating is quite frustrating. I know I have personally sent out messages to guys who have ignored my message. The only reason I persevere is because I want to find a guy and have a great relationship and live happily ever after.
Unfortunately it's not that simple. I need someone who I am compatible with. I need someone who is attracted to me. There has to be some sort of mutual attraction and compatibility. That is easier talked about than found.
I'm not really sure what your profile looks like (when you mentioned sending messages, I assume you mean online dating) or what kind of messages you are sending. But there are a million things that could have turned them off. It could be they read through your profile and didn't see anything interesting to them. Perhaps they are still talking to an ex boyfriend and are not sure if they are really ready to date other guys. Or maybe they are just too scared of online dating as it is (too much stranger danger).
Your messages may not be creepy at all. It just might be the girls you have messaged are not interested for one reason or another. I wouldn't take it too personally. It's all part of the process.
The best thing you can do is to keep trying. Eventually you will talk to a girl who is interested in you.
Also, there are plenty of people online who are just fake pages created by the dating website. This is more prevalent if you are using a free service.
TBH the best thing you can do is keep trying. Try to have people edit your profile and try to present yourself as good as possible.2
Most Helpful Guy
I don't know what happened to the follow option for questions. I'd like to follow this question with great interest.
If a woman unjustly regards you as a creep, my advice would be not to give a shit. On the other hand, if MANY women regard you as a creep, it might be fruitful to examine the way you approach them.
Although some deny it, it's true that some women do disregard a man as a creep based solely on the way he looks. That's because 2 million years of human evolution has evolved us that way. It makes sense. Sperm is cheap, but having a baby isn't. If she has a baby with someone who isn't genetically desirable, she's out of action for months, perhaps even years, and it takes years to raise it. Women are evolved to be highly selective and suspicious of who wants to mate with them. Where I take issue with some women (please note I said "some") is that they cannot seem to maintain a civil tongue when rejecting someone who has approached them, even when it's done politely. For some reason, they have to voice their disgust, even when a man approaches them politely and respectfully.
I don't look like Brad Pitt, but women don't call me a creep in person. To the best of my knowledge, they don't do it behind my back either. If they do, I don't care.1