My girlfriend has gotten way bigger in her sophmore year of college and she doesn't seem to care AT ALL when i bring it her. we both doent really exercise so im not in great shape either but i never really have since she met me either. im 25 however and not quite fat
here's a couple pics i snuck ~1 year ago and today when she was smokin thin and... now
"she does go tanning more now too?"
by the way she is really cool and chill. good soulmate, but i think she actually likes being fatt
- thats a lot of extra weight43% (13)59% (13)50% (26)Vote
- yeah, she's got a little pudge, but nothing to get concered about yet33% (10)18% (4)27% (14)Vote
- maybe she likes being fat10% (3)5% (1)8% (4)Vote
- I think she looks better chubby7% (2)5% (1)6% (3)Vote
- break up with her7% (2)13% (3)9% (5)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
College life can be tough. Stress, hormone changes, and little time add to people gaining weight. I gained a little (5 pounds) my first year of uni, even though I went to the gym 4 times a week for almost 2 hours, ate vegetarian food... but the stress was really high.
Maybe you can both go for walks together, or find other physical activities you both would enjoy. This will keep both of you healthy, and maybe she can use the support. If she doesn't care or is fine with this, I would still ask in a fun, upbeat way to come for a walk with you.0
Most Helpful Guy
the freshman 15 is very real. most college students aren't eating wholesome meals and exercise less.
i think rather than brigning up to her that you think she's gotten fat you should instead maybe go about more indirect ways to influence her lifestyle... such as suggesting healthier meals, maybe you even cook. suggest that both of you start going to the gym or for runs1