Should ugly guys give up on girls?

[Anonymous]

Like if they reach a certain age and still don't have a girl

[danielthelamb]

Lets be real here, have you seen other guys who you would consider not attractive with a girlfriend before?
I've seen plenty and that proves "ugly" guys can always get a girl friend if they put in enough effort.

There are girls who care about looks and girls that don't (I didn't believe it at first but believe me it's true.. I've asked them IRL lmao). For the girls that do.. Tough luck. But if it's girls that don't care about physical appearance and you still aren't able to get them than maybe it's something to do with your personality?

There are also girls that consider themselves unattractive too and generally they are easier to get as a girlfriend because honestly they have lower standards, they aren't asking for much and if you still can't get them then maybe your standards are too high?

I've learned to realise physical appearance doesn't matter when you fall in love with someone. Have you ever had the feeling when you loved someone and then all their imperfections become perfect imperfections? When you truly feel that feeling you will understand.. It's really hard to explain.

[Asker]

Dude it just never gonna happen for me

[serious]

I think they shouldn't really give up, but they should go for women who are in their range, say for example an ugly whose rating is 3 out of 10, should limit his range to just women who are 3-4 out of 10 only, they should leave the extremely attractive women alone. They can never have them

[Asker]

Well I know I can't have extremely attractive women I'm a freak

[serious]

Well, there is a theory regarding this, if you are interested in knowing that.

[Asker]

What's that

[serious]

Okay, I am sure you know there are guys who are confident, who display confidence but they won't be that good looking, I am sure you know this. I would like to ask you how confident are you as a person? do you show your confidence? hence even if you are not good looking but if your confidence level is extremely high that can also attract women, and sometimes even women who are extremely attractive say who are 8 out 10, I am just saying it's possible, why? that's because confidence means a lot to a woman, they give importance to that factor, women for sure like confident men, men who know what they want, men who display confidence.

Hence from all that I am saying that if you are confident, if an ugly guy is confident then even an extremely attractive woman might get attracted to that guy, if the guy makes a move on such a woman there are chances that it might work out.

[serious]

Please note:

This is just a theory, there is no guarantee for this, there is no guarantee that this theory will work in practicality, there are high chances of failures involved in this, there is a very good chance that if this not so good looking guy tries to make a move he can outright get rejected by the extremely attractive woman, however the chances of success are there but are minimal. Hence any not so good looking looking to try out this will be doing it on his own risk. He must be prepared for rejection before hand.

This theory is more dependent on his luck. Once again, this is just a theory, there is no practical proof that it will work this way, even if there is it's rare and not commonly found.

Secondly, just being confident is not enough, a woman looks for many other things in a guy. Hence this was just a theory, and I thought I'll share it with you.

[Asker]

https://imgur.com/Ix9qIIL well I was always told I was repulsive

[thelittlelostbear]

I get really nervous around good looking guys so I always go for the 'average/normal' looking guy. Mostly it's all about the insides and that is why, when you meet a nice girl and got to know her, show her your soul instead of your moves.
Just don't give up! They are out there, just sometimes hard to find :)

[Asker]

Well I have a good personality

[shadowlegend]

"Ugly" is only determined by perception. You don't know if someone will find you attractive. It's far more attractive to see someone who is secure in themselves, who have learned to love themselves, than to see someone insecure, and so desperately trying to be physically appealing.

[Asker]

I rather know I'm ugly now then someone shooting me down for it

[shadowlegend]

You aren't understanding. "ugly", "pretty", all those words are simply subjective to who is saying them. One person may think you're ugly, another may think you're handsome. If you want to let insecurity overcome you, you can, but you will just ensure you remain alone and unhappy.

[Asker]

I just wanna feel good about how I look

[shadowlegend]

Then start being good to yourself, and thinking good things about yourself, everyday.

[Asker]

I can't

[shadowlegend]

Anyone can.

[Asker]

So how do I love myself

[lumos]

People should do whatever they feel like doing.

[samdcb]

So... can I do you then? ;)

[lumos]

@samdcb -_____-

[Anonymous]

No, a lot of girls value personality over looks so I'm sure you'll find someone. It will probably require more effort but it will be worth it in the end cause at least you'll know that they like you for you and not just your looks. Oh, and be realistic and go for girls of the same league

[Asker]

https://imgur.com/Ix9qIIL where do I stand

[Opinion Owner]

I honestly don't think you're ugly at all. You look kinda young though. How old are you?

[Asker]

I'm 24

[Asker]

Could my issue be girls think I'm underage

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I guess that could be the problem. You don't look your age and from what I've seen, it can be a deal breaker for a lot of girls. I have the same problem to be honest but I'm a girl so most guys don't care either way

[Asker]

Hoe is looking younger them what you are a deal breaker isn't that ass backwards

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know, some girls really care about this stuff. I'd personally feel awkward dating guy who's younger than me (age-wise) so I guess it's the same if you look really young. It really sucks, I know :(

[Anonymous]

No. Dating gets easier, not harder for guys, so lack of success early does not mean lack of success later.

Second, to be brutal, women view men first as power objects, while men view women first as sex objects. THen on top of that, we add love and compatibility and all that stuff.

A 40 year old guy with an ugly face, a good job, some muscle and high maturity can get laid easily.

How's your career going?

Do you lift?

[Prilee1992]

Follow this dude, do some daygame. He's UGLY too, inspirational

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3c42VDy5JzI

[SakuraChii]

No, maybe you are setting your standards too high. I feel that leagues don't exsist but others may feel differently especially young people.

[Asker]

I don't know what league or standard I should go for

[BeerGoggles]

Hot Women dig ugly men with career (and money of course).. I ain't sayin' they're goldiggers but...

If you're a poor unattractive dude, that's a major problem

[Asker]

Yeah I'm a poor untractive dude

[BeerGoggles]

Shitzer... we have a problem

[Asker]

Yeah its never gonna happen

[BeerGoggles]

Better post your pic and ask for girls' opinion

[Asker]

It's cool I can always buy a really realistic sex doll

[Berethor]

@BeerGoggles actually for a girl to be with an ugly men for his money, is the definition of gold digger.

[Asker]

@Berethor yeah

[beautiful_secret_]

u r not ugly its just that the person's eye sight is very dull.. i don't think anyone is ever ugly

[Asker]

I am

[Noorsxx]

No, you can find your lover at all ages, even if you are 80 :)

[Asker]

Doubt that

[Berethor]

Maybe they should give up, but ugly guys better shot is with girl of their own league. :)

[sethosaurus_rex]

well if you turn gay, you'll definitely be having a ton more sex

[Transigence]

No, women don't prioritize beauty in men.

However, good, honest, timid, poor men of low status probably should. And by that, I mean the bottom 80%.

[blondfrog]

Gold diggers are like prostitutes except you don't always get what you pay for. There are plenty of gold diggers who will get in a relationship with you or marry you.

[Summer4321]

No because from what I've seen most beautiful girls end up with guys who are not handsome

[Asker]

https://imgur.com/Ix9qIIL not me

[Summer4321]

You are not ugly! and you're still young plus not all girls have the same taste in men. You have to have self-confidence to attract a girl... a lot of girls care about personality more than looks and i'm sure you will have a girlfriend soon

[Asker]

Then if I'm not ugly how come no girls are ever attracted to me

[Summer4321]

and how do you that they are not attracted to you? If a few girls didn't find you attractive, doesn't mean that all girl find you unattractive.

[Asker]

Yeah the assumption I got I just started to think no girl found me attractive

[Anonymous]

They should be realistic and go after equally ugly girls.

[Asker]

https://imgur.com/Ix9qIIL where do I stand

[Opinion Owner]

Yes.

[Asker]

So I'm ugly correct

[Opinion Owner]

No. stop asking these questions. You're fine.

[Asker]

So what range girls can I get you said I'm fine

[Opinion Owner]

fine as in ok. there's nothing wrong with you.

[Asker]

So I could get any girl it's just my self-confidence

[Opinion Owner]

No. You can get some girls. No guy can get any girl

[Asker]

Do you think I'm good enough to get a attractive blonde

[takumii]

Giving up on girls is not enough , you have to act on it.. Go suck a dick with pride and turn into a homosexual.

[Foreverconfused21]

Wouldn't your time be better invested in self improvement then drowning in self pity?

[apple24]

No such thing... my stepdad isn't handsome at all! And my mom with him!

[orphan]

girls care more about what you say to them, than how you look.

[thewanderingme]

pppppfffffftttttt!

[orphan]

@thewanderingme

really now. should i use you as an example

[Calex]

This probably won't help, but how about facial surgery?

[hifromkai]

No because some girls have the incredible ability of not being o

[Jobin61]

Nope. Heaps of ugly guys have girlfriends. Just stay in good shape.

[Asker]

Dude I'm in good shape ain't nothing happening