Recently I was very shocked to discover my idea of a Sheldon and Amy style Relationship Agreement isn't reality. That's what I've been expecting my whole life.
Most Helpful Guy
You will be the greatest jerk of whole cosmos to believe that it is reality... hahaha
Its simple if he ask you out and you go out with him happily for about at least three times and he is pushing it forward and forward the yeah you are in relationship while you must keep sex out of table because he may be shy to ask you for that.0
Most Helpful Girl
Are you setting up a body and emotion business with someone? Because that's where you make a contract. Sheldon and Amy's is a very conditional agreement. It's a bit too objective. And it's entertainment. The heart and mind and body are fickle. Ain't gonna be listening to you.
Sure, you'll sit down and plan out your meetings. There will be mutual agreements to certain things. But you can't list out things and go tick-mark.
Call it love or a relationship.. it's when the happiness and sadness and pain of the other person becomes your own and when the other person is moved by you similarly. When you try to understand things from the other's perspective instead of holding your own ground defiantly. When you can honestly tell each other stuff and be open to criticism.
Everyone works in different ways. Everyone labels it different. But a 'relationship' can be a very many things and of various levels. Can't really define that. It really depends. Even a friends-with-benefits is a kind of relationship which has certain allowances and certain lines drawn. I guess that's more contractual in nature. People can date and not be in a relationship. In this case, a relationship is when you're emotionally (and physically) invested in someone.0