Than for a boy to find a girlfriend?
Specially is te girl is pretty?
Most Helpful Guy
Easier, yes. Waaaay easier for a girl to find a boy. Particularly if she's attractive. She might not find *the best guys* right away, but all she has to do is sift through a bunch. I hear a lot of them complain about how much attention they get, and this is how it comes off to me, "Maaaaaaaan, I can't choose between eating lobster or sushi. And there are so many shitty hamburgers in front of me, and I have to walk ALL THE WAY OVER TO THE END OF THE TABLE to get my premium kobi beef steak." Obviously there's some kind of irritation in that, but it's not equivalent to someone who can't find someone or is constantly turned down, and their table is completely empty and they're like, "Man. I really wish I had something to eat..."
You may as well ask "what's harder? Turning people down, or getting turned down?" Males are expected to be the initiators, primarily. That means we have to approach, we have to impress, we have to come off funny, we have to have a good job, we have to have a good personality, we have to pay for their shit for *just the chance at speaking with her*. All she has to do is stand there and judge me and eat my food. So difficult.
Now, for ugly people. Ugly males have it better than ugly females, because attractiveness is the primary quality guys look for. There has to be at least a baseline attractiveness, as women have the baseline income. A bit below average is usually acceptable, but lower is a lot harder. Ugly males might gain higher social status or income and get a woman interested in him--and in his personality, not just his money.
Further, females have innate value in society. This goes back to 20,000 years ago and the way humans reproduce. Naturally, when you have less of something important, it becomes more valuable. When you have an infinite supply, it's useless. E. g. female eggs and male sperm. The way males gain societal value (still) is through occupation and accomplishment. But now females have occupations and make their own accomplishments which inflates their societal value when topped off with their innate societal value. So, naturally, this serves to the point where an average male (a 5) is lucky to find some fatass 2 with cankles, because all the average women (a 5) think they deserve an 8 or a 10. This is shown on some okcupid stats where women rated 80% of men as below average. That leads to males dating down and females dating up. Yes, women should be free to work wherever they want. Just pointing out shit.0
Most Helpful Girl
It's easier for her to find guys, sex and relationships, but not a meaningful one.6