I dated a girl in hs and it was nothing serious/no sex since she claimed she was a virgin and wanted to wait. I'm like the 40 year old virgin actor. I consider myself a respectful/nice guy but unfortunately you know this like i do that girls don't like my type.
This girl then moved to college 300 miles away and i never saw her again. We kept in touch via social media. She soon moved back home a year later because she didn't like that college. Now that she's back we're starting to hangout again. She said "i was just in an abusive relationship and i just want to be cool right now but you can date other girls i won't mind". I then told her that while she was away i had only date/slept with one girl and she seem pissed. She said "wow only one? is that all you can do bigshot" and started talking other smack.
Does this mean i was friendzone? and also she doesn't want too see me anymore and we kissed this last day we hung out
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She didn't necessarily friend zone you, it's more like she got jealous. What I'm getting from your story is that she likes you, but she doesn't want a relationship at the moment. She said she's ok with you seeing other girls, but she gets jealous because she still likes you. The best thing to do is just talk it out with her.0
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Despite women shaming men who sleep around as "fuck boys" women generally want guys who have lots of experience. Hence, why they will always go for guys other girls are chasing after because those guys have plenty of time practicing fucking.
So women may shame the "fuck boy" and say she would never date this guy but she will jump right into the sack with him and have hardcore sex if she knew no one would find out.
In short yeah you were friendzone because it showed to her that other women don't find you that sexual attractive since you only got 1 kill within a year.
Another possibility is she could suspiciously be jealous that you slept with that 1 girl. She may perceive you to be her little beta provider. Her backup guy for the long haul if all her other hook ups failed to reach LTR relationship status.