No it is not a bad thing, it is 2015 and more and more women are getting into that role more often.. I had this one girlfriend and we went out for over two years.. neither of us were into getting married.. but we both just liked the dating scene.. she was the one who wore the pants while we lived together.. but she liked that I wore the diapers and rubber pants.. It seemed to work out rather nicely.. she liked me very much and also liked what I wore.. she was always a happy person while around me.. and told me many times that long before she met me.. she had dated men before that wore diapers and rubber pants and she just loved it as she felt more in charge with them.. it does not really matter now a days who wears the pants in the relationship.. as long as it is a good relationship for both parties.. that is what counts the most
Only if you want to wear the pants! If you want be the man than tell her and see how it goes... If nothing changes you have to moveon because you want to be with someone who equal or you want to be the man!