I'm 23 w/ 2 kids, he's 24, no kids. We've been together for about 2 years. He has cheated on me (not physically, but with online accounts and setting up hook ups) things like that. He has hit me before and once he told me that he could see why my ex used to beat my ass. I'm not gonna lie, I'm clingy, I am extremely insecure, my last relationship was extremely abusive and I still have self esteem issues. I do a lot for my boyfriend, I spoil him. Take him out to eat, buy him things, I give him head all the time. But it never seems to be enough. I'm always working or at home with him and my kids but he doesn't trust me. He's very selfish too. I ask him for small favors and he always says no. I usually do what he asks me to. And when it comes to money, he gets mad if I ask for a small coffee or something, but with me its never an issue. I barely make more money than him so I don't understand why he gets mad. He doesn't bring me around his family anymore either. I suspect his mom doesn't like me.. he Nevers gives me the proper attention. I always ask about his day and I make sure his needs are taken care of. But he never bothers to ask about my feelings. He never takes me out unless I ask, and he never tells me I'm pretty. If I ask he says "yeah" and that's it. It really bothers me when I get all ready for him and he doesn't even bother to compliment me where as I always compliment him calling him handsome and things like that... he also doesn't like talking about the future. And he won't introduce me to his friends. I think he's embarrassed of me. He doesn't even let me pick him up from work anymore. So what am I doing wrong? We've broken up before but I was the one who asked for him back and he cried and told me he was sorry for whatever he did..
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He could be seeking attention elsewhere but might I add why the hell are you still with him? Just because you're insecure and clingy doesn't mean another man won't want your clinginess? You're letting him step all over you and you're even pointing it out where it is unfair and how you're treated. He's taking you for granted and expects you to basically kneel at his feet. Don't give more than what you get, it's not a titt for tat and a relationship should never be. It's so unfortunate that you do not know what you deserve and you'd be shocked at what a true man and gentleman acts like, he is a selfish boy.2