i had a girlfriend who was pretty but nothing special the girl before that was pretty too but still average , now iam a college student and i just have a really large dating pool , i attract girls attention fairly well and my playful, confident and smart personality does help i guess but here's the thing i realized i dont want to date a girl iam not attracted to , so i am keeping a distance if iam not interested in a girl and was wondering how shallow you think that is? i want to date a girl who i think is pretty and attractive to me , sometimes i find pretty girls who iam not even attracted to so i was wondering what do you think?
i dont think its shallow at all, its not like your over here saying you want a girl with extremely rare features and a body that can usually only be achieved through surgery because its too good to be true, we all have our own definitions of perfect. it doesn't make you shallow, just means you have a specific taste. and i believe that not being physically attracted to someone just kills half of the relationship.
I think people should be allowed to date who ever they want. If you only date girls that you are attracted to that is okay. I you want to open up your horizons then try talking to different types of girls and get to know them by personality.
I do the same. I only go for hot guys! If they are average then they're screwed.
Nobody wants to date a person they are not attracted to. You sound perfectly normal. You may have higher standards than most, but as long as you can actually get women within your standards, then you are fine.