I am about 5'9 or 5'10 and about 140 lbs. Basically boyish. I work out but any toning is natural, no steroids, so nothing amazing there. There is this older gal that is probably near 6' (just a guess since I'm bad at estimating height) and is athletic, built for a girl.
I am not sure, but she seems to be making googly eyes. Should I ask her out, or am I imagining things? What are the odds she likes me? I see this lady and I think she would want nothing less than a 6'5" bearded lumberjack.
I want answers that are not idealistic feel-good stuff, but honest from the gut. I'm not a huge loser and have no problem meeting women, usually smaller younger women. I can take it or leave it. You can't hurt my feelings or depress me.
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Most Helpful Girl
Approach her! What's the worst that could happen?
She'll reject you, not much different than what could happen with any other girl.
It's not like her being tall for a girl makes he be of a different species or anything. It's perfectly possible she's still making 'googly eyes' at you.
Just own your height. Coming from a girl who's 5'10 so also on the taller side, it's super hot when a guy doesn't like something petty like a height difference stand in his way. My boyfriend is also a bit shorter than me and I remember when he first started expressing interest in dating me, I was majorly impressed by his confidence. How he didn't find my height emasculating in any way; that whole idea was mostly in my own head.1
Most Helpful Guy
Look at it this way. If you're fairly good with the ladies, you must be attractive. Now consider it from her POV, if she likes guys, how many guys are going to approach her - given her size? Not too many I'd guess. So - if she's straight and she appears interested, she probably is. by the way, if it works out for you, don't be a jerk with her.0
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