I'd like to know why. Is it because you are scared?
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I think that girls are judged more harshly if they make the first move and ask a guy out and this is not something I agree with but I believe that's just how society is. With the fear of rejection and ensuing depression aside, if a guy asks a girl out, it's still widely considered the norm and the guy is applauded for having balls. But given the same situation with a girl asking someone out, suddenly negative labels are attached e. g. desperate, easy, etc. And the common comments and advice found on so many online forums about guys liking to chase instead of being pursued probably is a good indication that it's suggested that girls have more to lose by making the first move.0