Girls seem nuts. With makeup, which majority of women in the west wear, and as long as one is not fat, and weight is the number 1 thing most girls watch, it is really difficult for girls not to look at least attractive.
I don't normally give girls complements on their looks as I'm sure so many are used to it/have heard it before.
But the more I speak to some girls about it the more it become apparent that they are genuinely unhappy with how they look. If a guy complements you on your looks girls, do you automatically feel he's after something rather than being genuine?
Also, why don't girls feel good when it's clear that they're attractive. Like 95% of girls on tinder look good but the same can't be said for guys.
Do girls really feel that unhappy? If so, can girls explain why?
Most Helpful Girl
Some people are down on themselves. plenty of men dont feel beautiful as well, but i guess since you're not into men you dont care.
I've never felt ugly and i dont feel unhappy with myself. i think assuming this is how girls are is like saying girls are just insecure and fragile. thats not the case. yo can as find someone to support a stereotype but for the most [art women are obviously content bc they get yp go to woprkl have lives and are not shutting in and trying to off themselves.
al;so beauty is not the most important thing., asking this question its as if a woman needs to be or think she's beautiful to be successful psychologically. there are much more important virtues like strength intelligence courage altruism conviction force of personality... people dont write articles on women feeling powerful and courageous they write articles on women feeling ugly or not taking a compliment or taking too many compliments.
beauty really shouldn t be the big deal its made out to be. where to 'sympathize ' is to try to prove a person has beauty or commiserate bc they dont, instead pf paying attention to much more important things. its demoralizing. and i think its very uninteresting,. its not a travesty if a woman or man does not feel beautiful. the shame is if that person thinks that not having that feeling is the end of the war;ld or renders them useless.
the way you're writing this is like women should not feel good if they are not attractive. no person is attractive to everyone and some people are not attractive physically to many. that does not make their lives meaningless.
as for me if a guy compliments me i dont have difficulty accepting it bc i dont see why its not believable. but it doesn't elevate him in my eyes just bc he's complimented me. i really dont see why you'd care what a woman (an attractive woman) thinks about your complimenting her unless you had some kin of mnotive.
why is it important to you to compliment anyone on how they look., something as fleeting and superficial as an appearance. why does it bother so many people top not have their compliment taken seriously. i think if you compliment concrete parts of a personality people would take it more seriously. you could try that.
think about it. why would you be complimenting someones looks. when they dont have too much control over that and in doing so you're emphasizing the unimportance of the rest of them?0
Most Helpful Guy
Girls all want the top 20% of men. There life long dream is to marry a man who is handsome, rich and has high social status.
By there being a hotter woman than them in their area, means their chance of getting that dream gets a little bleaker and they'll have to settle for an average guy. This is why they get depressed and insecure when they see a hotter girl than them.
The hotter girl would draw more men to them and knock these girls out of the competition for the rich, hot guy.