I'm the type of guy that does respect women but at the same time, dislike women who are freeloaders, slackers and self-entitled. While I would definitely hold a door for my date (or any women) and sacrifice my seat for a woman, the things that I won't do are pulling out a chair for her at a restaurant if there's multiple chairs near her and if she gives me an attitude for not being a "gentleman" by pulling out a chair for her, I'll straight up tell her to her face "You have arms, you can pick any of the multiple chairs near you and pull one out your damn self!".
Believe it or not, I've actually once dated a girl that was THIS spoiled, lazy and rude.
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I think there are better ways to address what someone sees as a breach of etiquette. Like we could hypothetically be having a great time, but if a guy ever talked to me that way, I would be *done*.
Respect is a two way street you know and it's very possible to have social misunderstanding. Why not try to ask questions and understand one another's expectations before showing off the snaps?2