This guy said ''i wish i met you when you were happy''. He literally said that. He said i don't think we match (we had mad chemistry), he saw i wasn't happy and left, he did told me that he would do whatever it takes to make his woman happy, so why couldnt he make me happy? I feel heartbroken that traded me in for a different (more uglier) girl, he said that my attitude wasn't right and that i need to ''fix'' that and then come back to him... if he was such a fun person to hang around with why be so arrogant? it seemed like he wanted to sit back and that a woman would make him happy instead of doing the work. I will never forgive him for it...
Most Helpful Guy
People talk big game but that's all they are talkers
They don't intend to see things through and such people don't deserve your time2
Most Helpful Girl
It is extremely unfair and selfish for someone to bring their baggage to another person and expect them to deal with it for them. I have found that a lot of women act like being damaged is an alluring thing that makes them 'special' or 'mysterious' so they don't get down to business and resolve whatever issues they have. They have 'Cinderalla mentality'; sitting in a dark cold dusty cellar waiting for somebody to come and rescue them. It's like they're hoping a man will come along and be a free therapist and fix them, solve their internal problems, and heal them.
In actual reality, your negativity, bad attitude, and pile of issues that you refuse to fix is disruptive towards someone else's harmony, peace, and consistent happiness. If someone has worked hard to achieve a happy life then you come around with an endless sour attitude, always frowning, always moping and basically being Eor from Winnie the Poo then of course they're going to get tired of that chit. It doesn't matter whether you think this new girl is uglier than you because at the end off the day, she's the one wrapped in his arms, not you. You can't rely on pretty instead of taking it to the next level and expect that you can have the nastiest attitude and spread negative vibes yet still get the guy because of your physical features. In all honesty, he has no obligation or duty to "do the work" of your damaged personality for you. That is YOUR duty and responsibility to YOURSELF. YOU need to be taking care of your mind, not expecting him to.1
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