Why is it so hard to find a guy that 5'7 or taller, educated/ is a student, is cute, loving, funny, caring, good physcial shape, likes cats, is hairy ( to an degree), has facial hair and experimental in bed?
Just to make it clear, this is what i mean by all the things i listed and YES, i do posess most of those qualities myself:
"5'7 or taller" - says it self, im 5'5 "educated/ is a student" - when date im doing it for the long run, i just dont see myself being married to a guy who only finished high school, when i have a master degree "cute" - im pretty dam cute "loving" - yes i am "Funny" - people laugh at my jokes and call me funny, im not going to argue with them "Caring" - indeed i am
Good physical shape: im in great shape, i dont know anyone who is in better shape than i am Likes cat: i love kitties <3 facial hair: well i do get a mustache is i dont shave Experimental in bed: in theory yes, im a virgin but i'll try anything once
Wheres my build a bitch workshop then? I want a Brunette with long tan legs, big butt, medium sized boobs, fantastic eyes ( Eyes are important :), not so much color ), who is smart enough and can support herself and does not expect the man to pay and buy everything? ( Unless they are a stay at home mother for example ).
A few things you will have to sacrifice are your height restrictions so 5'7" or taller should not be hard. There physical shape, who cares if he is a little thicker and doesn't have those dream abs that every girl wants? Smart/Is a student is 50/50. Obviously I would not want to date an idiot who can't make important decisions but if she went through Highschool can keep a good life going with whatever she is currently doing, so be it. Hairy is however the guy feels comfortable. Personallly ( Though I don't have enough hair to make to much of a judgement ) I like being hairy while I know some people who shave everything off. Likes cats is another 50/50, Cats may not bother them though don't expect to me like "OH MY GOSH he/she IS SO FLUFFY"
Oh and are you able to at least compare to them with this? If you expect to find the perfect guy expect to be alone. I know I make many compromises when looking around though I have yet to find the personality I enjoy. I honestly don't care the girl is a size 2 or size 8, whether she has black or blonde hair, tan or looks like a ghost.
1. 5'7 or taller - I'm 6 ft. 2. educated/ is a student - I'm a student. 3. is cute - I've been told I'm cute but I disagree. 4. loving - I would like to think so. 5. funny - Same above. 6. caring - Same above. 7. good physcial shape - Not really. I look fit but I'm more of a skinny gamer. 8. likes cats - I prefer dogs just cos they're better. 9. is hairy ( to an degree) - I often forget to shave. Does that count? 10. has facial hair - I normally have stubble. 11. experimental in bed? - Yeah if I trust the person.
Apart from myself, I don't know how experimental most guys are in bed. :P
"5'7 or taller" - 6' "educated/ is a student" - I have a masters degree "cute" - I'm cute af "loving" - 😍😍😍😍 "Funny" - Funnier than me? 😂 "Caring" - 💁 Good physical shape: 💪💪💪 Likes cat: I love animals 🐈🐕 Facial hair: Yes Experimental in bed: I'm a scholar in experimenting things 😂
It's not that hard to find a guy that excels at every aspect in life like that, they exist.
However, how hot are you and what do you bring to the table? Are you a model with a degree in nursing that is also very sweet and can do a split on a dick? If not, I wouldn't count on getting any of those perfect men if I were you unless you fit that description.
Having high standards and a long checklist isn't a bad thing, just make sure you yourself meet those same standards you're looking for or you're trying to buy more than you can afford.
I'm 6'1". I'm educated - Associate degree. I'm cute. I'm loving. I have a sense of humor. I'm caring. I used to be in physical shape, and still somewhat. But not that much anymore. I suppose I don't entirely care about cats. I had facial hair last week, but shaved it off for a date and a job interview. Experimental in bed? Explain a little more, please.
Ok well if you're an overachiever then you can either settle for someone below your league or you can try to meet another overachiever by doing the same things you already do regularly. But it should be said that overachievers are rare by their nature so you might just need to be patient.
Also can carry the world on his back? Damn it so many expectations! Lol jk well like the saying goes when your looking for something it seems to disappear. Just don't stress it and you'll start noticing
Girl xD picky much? There are lots of great guys out there and I've read your comments to some opinions to these guys. Eg if they don't do gym then that's not good enough 😂 first wanna see how you look like before you start being picky af
Why not instead of trying to find a guy that fits every thing on your check list you open yourself up to a guy that fits two to three really important things as in the qualities you need. Because going around looking for a guy that fits a ridiculous check list is only going to limit your options. Also even if you do find such a guy what if you don't fit the checklist he has?