I've been talking to this girl for awhile, and we made definite plans to do something today to which she didn't pitch. Albeit i was 10min late (which i've always seen as socially acceptable), she didn't pitch up for it at all, and instead went on to do something else. I adamantly told her when she messaged me, that I was disappointed in her decision to do so and politely reminded her that in the future if she makes plans with someone, she should try and stick to them.
Consequently, she went on about how "now she is the one to blame, as always" and tried to throw the blame on me, etc. I just saw it as her trying to guilt trip me into letting her walk all over me; she was clearly upset by it, but I stood by what i said, and repeated to her that I didn't appreciate the way she overlooked our plans. I then promptly left the conversation to avoid any more unnecessary drama.
But I now have a bad taste in my mouth. Was I right, or was I wrong? Could I have approached it any better?
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Wait did she blow it off entirely, or was she there waiting for you when you were late, and left before you got there?0