So I've recently found out that my boyfriend for 1 yr is telling girls and HIS EX that he's single I mean I didn't want to believe it at first but it's al starting to make sense. He doesn't show me off, nowhere on his social media shows that he's in a relationship with me. When I bring it up he says "posting you on social media doesn't determine our relationship. but I overthink literally evryyyythinggggg! & it really bothers me that he tells his ex he is single when he's not!! And I feel like he isn't proud to have me
Yes, you are overthinking things. Just because he doesn't show you off in social media doesn't mean that he is not with you in reality, right? then why do you care so much about others knowing about your relationship? may be your boyfriend wants to keep this to himself, keep it as a secret may be. Some men can be like that, but you both know the truth, so why should it matter to you?
Not posting the relationship on social media is totally different than actually telling people you're single. Meaning, it's not a big deal if he chooses not to display his relationship on social media, but he definitely shouldn't be telling people he's single. That's obviously crossing a line. I personally would have a very big problem with that. I would probably dump him so at least then he won't be lying about it when he tells women his relationship status.
I know it may hurt but, in no way would a person that loves you deny his feelings for you. Confront him about it, tell him how you found out he has been denying your companionship. Girl don't sweat it, he is not worth the effort. Maybe he will realize that when it's too late.
if he's telling people he is single you should be like "ok you keep doing that because now you are" he sounds like an asshole and i think you deserve better. no guy in a relationship should be telling anyone he is single!
Dump him. He is right that posting a relationship status does not determine a relationship but telling anyone let alone an ex that he is single is a bad, bad omen. Get out now with your dignity in check. You are not overthinking this one.
Dump him. If you've been in a relationship with him for over a year, you guys should have made it official and expressed your concerns with him from the beginning. He sounds like an asshole.
He's cheating and doesn't take ur relationship seriously at all. You don't overthink things, you just let this dude play mind games with you. Start telling other guys you're single and move on from this loser.
BREAK UP WITH HIM. He's manipulating you. Don't let him play the victim and act like it's your fault. Get rid of him, he's toxic!
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