My mom did not approve of my husband when we first started dating. She seemed to have some extreme prejudice against him that went beyond the protective mother role. Eventually, my husband started to come around my parents more and started forcing his way into my parents hearts. Now they all hang out together while I'm away. Problem sovled. Lol
If my parents don't like someone, I would trust them. They don't focus on a person's exterior. They're all about inner substance. If a guy didn't have that, it wouldn't matter if I thought I loved the guy or not. You can't let fee fees overwhelm good sense.