My crush and I got pretty close these past weeks. I had already been set up on an unplanned "video games/anime/hang out" night a bit more than a week ago. We texted during the whole Thanksgiving break and it was great! We are in the same class, so we see each other pretty much everyday and he always sits next or not to far to me, we walk out of our building together, etc. Yesterday, he waited for me after class..! Then we stayed outside and his sister walked up to us (he usually waits for and walks out with her). She looked at me up and down and made eye-contact with me a couple times (she didn't look so happy..). The night before, him and I had talked about watching the Walking Dead together. I texted him and planned to do it yesterday. We agreed on 8:30pm, but he told me that he had some stuff to do beforehand so he'd let me know as soon as he was done. I waited about 2 hours for him to text me... He told me that his roommates had people over and they didn't seem to be leaving anytime soon. I started thinking that it wasn't gonna happen so I let my hopes down. He didn't show up and didn't say anything (he sucks at texting). I was looking forward to see him and I even canceled my basketball game to hang out with him. He seems to like me a lot, but I was a bit disappointed of how things went. He's a very nice guy and he doesn't have a strong personality like me, he's very easygoing and has a very soft temper, so that's probably why he didn't kick those people out. But still, if he really liked me a lot, wouldn't he make everything he can to see me? I know we're not entitled to each other whatsoever, but if he doesn't make efforts to meet up while we're NOT dating, I don't want to imagine how it's gonna be if we end up doing so. He probably tried to kick those people out, but his roommates are stubborn and rude (I've met them) so...
What do you guys think?
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It can be hard to turn down a night with friends. Some people put too much weight on the value of their friends versus a dating partner. He did sorta bail on you, but I think you just need to try again and see what happens. Be careful though. If he continues to put his friends first, you will always only be second best.
P. S. What was his sisters dirty look all about?1