I've been seeing this man. I'm 19 turning 20 he's 35, we have a long distance relationship but it's worked so far. I see him a few days out of every month and we text every day nd Skype sometimes , the attraction is definetly there. We became attracted to one another b/c of our personalities and we love eachother's sense of humor. The things is I did something really ridiculous and stupid. For some reson at the time when I was with my friend I thouht it would be funny to prank call him. We kept this going once every few weeks. Silly banter, some cursing involved and he would engage laughing. He clearly knew it was a joke. I figured I would reveal it was me since he thought he was so funny. I thought it would be something we would both laugh about. When I told him, long story short he didn't like it at all. He actually told me he found it mean and weird. His reaction to me was slightly confusing and I told him I care for him I would never do something delibretly mean. He left my messages on seen. I tried calling him as well. Eventually I got text saying "i'm coming in town next week, lets talk then... if you still want to see me?" This confuses me because I dont know if he's still mad or what. What I did was ridiculous and stupid I get it. I definetly have a complex about it because of the age thing... But not talking about it and just going out is awkward I feel. Maybe he saw what I wrote to him and accepted it? Maybe he wantes to move on? I don't know. What do you guys think? I don't want to seem desperate and continue to call and text him.
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I think you should wait to see him in person. It could go either way, but your next message should be that you still want to see him and hope the two of you can work through this.1