Hey there, I've asked out a girl and told her to have a drink with me.
She replied that she can't because she has a boyfriend.
Does it mean that if she didn't have a boyfriend will she gave me the chance to show my value?
Thank you, I'd like to know if it is more a rejection or simply it is the bad timing.
Thanks for your replies all !
I forgot to add that also the next day she sat next to me in science class, which usually she doesn't on her own. I was and still a little confused about the current situation. Mainly because it is the first time in my past 23 years of existence that I ask out a girl lol.
I was sitting here analyzing this situation and then it hit me. The fact that she told you that she has a boyfriend is a red flag in itself. She's saying she either is in a committed relationship already and you can't pursue her, or she's making it up completely to send you a message that you can't pursue her. So either way, and trust me, I know myself from experience how hard it is to move on from someone you really like, but I think you'll be wasting your time. Even if she made the boyfriend up and is slightly interested due to what she did in science class and with the playful punches (because to me that sounds a little flirty), her mind games aren't worth analyzing and frankly quite strange. If you like someone, you're going to want to go out with them. Unless maybe she doesn't like drinking or something, but still. I'd move on. You can choose to be just friends though and maybe that will be rewarding, but I suggest moving on from your feelings for her is key if you want to be happy in the long run.
Is probably a bad timing. She is probably a very loyal person, and has a lot of respect for her partner thats why she didn't acept the drink. And is weather she would said yes or no if she wasn't in a relationship.
It's hard to say because I'd imagine she wouldn't even be thinking like that because she has a boyfriend. I know when I was with my ex and a guy asked me out I straight away said no I have a boyfriend but I never thought about if I didn't have a boyfriend would I have said yes, if you know what I mean?
Sometimes we lie because if we say we're not interested, the guy will keep pursuing. Saying we have a boyfriend will stop the advances. It used to be instantly effective, but not so much anymore. Sadly, now they say stupid things like "I don't mind sharing" or "he doesn't have to know" or even "I don't mind being your side nigga".
Pretty much it means she does have a boyfriend and she was respecting her man. Whether or not she would have given you a chance had she not had a boyfriend, is hard to decode. With this one I think it's safe to say that you can look elsewhere or decide to be her friend.
No it means she doesn't want to have drinks with you at all. Even if she didn't have a boyfriend she doesn't go out with you lool. When a girl says they have a boyfriend, she is saying she is off limits and not interested AT ALL
1) She actually has a boyfriend, and might have given you a chance if she didn't. 2) She has a boyfriend, but doesn't really think about giving you a chance or not, because there's no point in it (since she's taken). 3) She's single, but is not attracted to you. So she's letting you down gently by lying about having a boyfriend.
It meant one of two things: either she really had a boyfriend and didn't want to lead you on, instead letting you know from the get go that she's taken. Or it was just an attempt of hers to dis you off as quickly as possible.
Bro it happend with me aswell... the girl asked me out i refused... and after 2 weeks i asked her out but she refused... do u know why? Because in those 2 weeks... some other guy made his moves... and she got attracted to him and told me that she has a boyfriend... it is basically her rejecting u in a polite way... dont take it to hear... move on to next girl bro :)
IT DOESN"T MATTER. She may have a boyfriend. She may not have a boyfriend. But one thing is certain: she does not want to go out with you right now. Don't ask her again, even if she breaks up with the boyfriend. She's knows you are interested; if she wants to go out with you she'll let you know. In the meantime go ask another girl.
It depends. Some may actually have a boyfriend but some may not. Continue to talk for a bit like 5ish minutes and she may change her mind. It could be she just was not interested at first but if you can show you have got a great personality it may just trigger something.