I know girls get annoyed by persistence most times if they've given hints they don't want to but does it ever work? as long as you're not constantly pestering her regularly, maybe only every few months or even less and you're never aggressive or anything like that. You just occasionally hint at it.
It works in less cases. But reaaaallllly depends on what kinds hints you're giving. If they consider it douchebag hints, then wrong approach duh. So find out what they WON'T consider to be these 'douchebag hints'.
If it's clear they DON'T want your hints, turn around and dig elsewhere. If you're persistent on wanting that one girl, then how about you try to TALK to her about things that interest her or both of you. The only way to make something work is to establish common ground. It's about sharing a world together. You have to connect. Try to find ways to spend with her that she won't reject. And MAYBE an interest may be built.
I've been friends with my crush for almost a year and a half. I first asked her to go to something with me almost a year ago (she said she felt bad so she didn't want to). I asked her to hang out this past January. We were about to, then she realized she had something to do, but she'd make it up to me.
We finally hung out in March. Then again in April. Then got lunch once in June.
Now I'm trying to find a time to call her and ask when she can hang out again, so I can confess to her that I really like/liked her.
What I'm trying to say is you can be persistent, and sometimes it'll work, sometimes it won't.
i only ask twice. maybe the first time she really was busy and was a bit dense to realize i was asking her out. after the second time if she's busy again and does not offer an alternative date then thats the end.
sometimes yes, but mostly no. Some women will reject you the first time on purpose to see how you react and see if that deters your confidence, in these cases they are testing you , but in most cases they are not interested