1. Diamonds. To me they're shiny lumps of carbon. See-through coal. But for some reason soooo many girls still think they're worth thousands and sometimes millions of dollars. 2. Weddings. Why are so many women so eager to put themselves and their spouses into debt to show off the legalization of a relationship. Like if you're at the point when you're comfortable with the thought of being with another person for the rest of your life why do you need a giant event to celebrate that? Why not just do it? I mean I get the whole making memories bit but a lot of women take it from a nice celebratory event into the most aesthetically "prefect" stress inducing couple hours of a lifetime. Then what happens next? Most people just go back to exactly what they were doing before with an additional pile of debt. 3. High heels. They hurt. They F up your toes. And most people can't go very fast in them. So if something goes down you're either running barefoot or bleeding in your shoes. So why exactly do so many women have multiple pairs of those feet massacring contraptions and wear them to some of the most dangerous places? 4. Marrying "up". There are a ton of women who aspire to marry a rich person instead of aspiring to be a rich person. Seems like a huge waste of life to me. Why not aspire to do something worthwhile with your life other than just be a consumer of other people's creations? 5. Complaining about having to do more than your fair share of housework but feeling completely comfortable hiding behind your spouse during a potentially violent and/or life threatening situations. I'll happily cook Rhonda Rousey as many sandwhiches as she wants if that means I'm not the one expected to be the first line of defense against the armed robber. 6. Not telling people why you're mad but still treating them like shit. Why not just tell them or or at least tell them why you can't tell them by saying something like "I'm mad at you but I can't tell you why I'm mad because I know it's not justifiable (or because I don't know how to explain it) but I still feel this way". Easy. Done. Further anger averted. 7. Picking something to f'ing eat. Saying you don't care but then shooting down every idea that gets pitched without giving any alternative options. I don't know why this is such a common thing. There is no reason for this to be such an accurate stereotype but it is.
Of course I'm not saying all women do these things. Just a lot.
What I don't understand is when they act like I owe them something. For some reason, (some) guys assume that if they like ME that this automatically means I am indebted to them and must like them back.
How they can have sex without getting attached. I know some girls can too but its been pretty set that the majority of men can sleep with a woman then get up and go about their day like nothing happened. As women we are more prone to get attached. Its very interesting. I know about the whole caveman/spreading seed concept but its still hard to grasp.
Obviously I'm basing this on personal experiences and aren't male-exclusive, but.. 1) Talking about exes... why? There's a time and a place for that. 2) Sucking at emotional intimacy. What's the big deal in admitting you missed someone? 3) Bragging. Can't tell if you're trying to impress me or just need to validate yourself.. or both 4) When I make a suggestion to do/watch something, giving a meek "I guess we could if you want". It makes me want to throttle you. 5) Not telling me when you're upset/something is bothering you- be it that you had a bad day, or just need to watch shitty sitcoms with someone.
1) I'm sure you know that wo/men do not all do the same things and you're asking from our personal experience of what the majority tend to do.
2) In my experience, I've noticed a large amount of guys who insult each other, fight, and then befriend each other once more...'
I don't get it. If someone called you out of your name, they disrespected/have no respect for you. And sometimes they continue to do it. I wouldn't befriend someone such as that.
... That's really it. I do like that a lot of guys have the "I don't give a fuck" syndrome. If they're faced with a situation that they can't fix, they shrug it off and wait for an opportunity to present itself. It's a brilliant way to relieve stress. I've adapted that thought process into my life.
Why they won't take me seriously once I bother with my appearance. When I dress like a hobo and don't put any effort to look good, they will give my opinion some real consideration and a deeper response.
But when I look pretty, they don't listen or care, they just wanna get into my pants and will say whatever to pacify me in order to get themselves on my good side. They stop thinking with intelligence and turn into horny cavemen with limited thought processes.
That they chase so hard initially but after getting the girl they just lose interest? Why do they claim to hate fake and slutty girls and then drool over surgically enhanced celebs like Megan Fox, Kaley Cuoco? Why do they have to praise other girls (physically) in front of their partners when they are pretty sure she ain't gonna like that?
What I don’t understand is how they think they are conning us about how much they want us love us etc. We know all they want to do is fuck us. We are allowing them to think we are being conned. Girls are 2 steps ahead of any guy any time. You never pick up a girl! We allow you to pick us up. Remember that. Next thing I don’t understand is why they are so uptight about their penis. Most of us couldn’t care less and we realize that the gigantic Cocks on porn movies are very rare. And we don’t care the guys a hired because they have big Cocks. It’s acting the whole thing is acting and you think it’s real. Men are little boys.
I don't understand how they can exchange texts, have sex with you at their house on more than one occasion, talk about work and family etc. Then they just stop all communication and ignore you even in public! Hello!!! Don't they know we are not built like that... Just give us an explanation and we will move on...
Everything on a more complex level (emotionally). I know most guys main interests and social attitude but when I try to see what's in their heart they back off. So when I think about it- it's everything.
The fact that women do not always want a solution to their problems when discussing their problems with you. I mean, what is the point of discussing our problems if we are not going to brainstorm solutions? I don't understand the talking just for the sake of talking sort of thinking which underlies this female approach.
Why some girls hide crushes and keep those things locked up.. like why not just clearly show him you are interested? Lots of women expect men to read minds. Lol, we aren't that bright--we definitely can't read minds!
"Where do you want to go?" "I don't care" HATE that. - if you want sex just come out with it, no need to pretend you're in a movie. - stop making hints, we don't get this. Be direct. - how a lot of them act weak but then think they're strong because of child birth. Being strong is a 24/7 thing. - i can hit you but since I'm a girl you can't hit back.
Why they can't make up their mind? Example- I want the couch over there by the door. Wait I don't like the look. Let's try it over here. I don't like the angle. Let's move it by the window. That's too much light. Can we try it in the corner? That's not enough leg room. Let's try it by the door again. Perfect
How they can be so indirect about things. Like they could be mad at you about something you did and so you're totally unaware of this because they won't come to you directly saying what's on their mind. So they'll do uncharacteristic things to catch your attention and when you finally catch on it's like pulling teeth getting them to open up.
How some girls assume we want sex, I have multiple friends who think I am only friends with them because I want to sleep with them, but, in reality, if they wanted to sleep with me I would turn them down.
For me the most confusing thing about women is that they will cover themselves up and feel uncomfortable about men looking up their skirts, yet they have no problem going to a male doctor and allowing him to examine their vagina, even if there's lots of female doctors available. It's confusing to me how women can be so easily brainwashed into thinking that male doctors don't look at them sexually just because they have a medical licence.