A- Do you usually text the person you dated right after the first date if you liked him/her without purpose just a normal message?
B- When do you think messaging/texting should happen?
After your first date what do you do?
What Girls Said 14
I usually send a text to thank him for taking me out on a date and to let him know I had a good time. No pressure for a second date. Just a polite appreciation and a little display of enthusiasm.1
Never had an official date let's say but I would just sleep and text the day after lol0
If you're mature, you call her up on the telephone0
I like like when i get a text soon after or within a day saying that the guy had fun spending time with me and would want to see me again0
I text as soon as I get home, and usually say it was fun.
If it isn't too late, then you should probably text soon after the date (or that's what I think)1
My first date with my boyfriend was terrible. He talked non stop and I decided not to pursue it. A week later I realized he was probably just really nervous because it had been years since he had dated anyone. We reconnected by email, and by the next date I knew I was interested in him. Third date I told him how I felt. Two months later we are still together, happy, and I often wonder what would have happened if I had not contacted him again. Sending a text after the first date works, but if it went really well a phone call is better, in my opinion.1
the day after? I don't know0
What Guys Said 7
Based on the two responses you gave, I would message them after the date if the comfort level is there. Beyond that, you should feel it out and see what is comfortable to you. I waited 3 days before I texted the girl I am trying to pursue now. Albeit I had a reason to text her (she thought she dropped her necklace at my place, instead took it off at home) , but still waited three days to talk to her about it.1
Right after, so she knows I am still thinking about her.1
I wait until called.0
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