Well looks are sorta important since the first thing hat both genders look at each other are looks, then personality then etc etc etc. People that say its all about the personality are right but they have to be they look good kinda thing. Also i don't believe in love at first sight, it feels more like i want to sleep with you then i love you.
Hmm ask yourself if you wanna be crazy cat lady. Think about doing your everyday routine in life and coming home everyday to an empty house and no one to greet with a kiss and hello, all because you didn't wanna open up. Thats all I got.