There's a girl that I've asked to go out with me. Initially, she did not make up her mind. After three weeks, she then replied to me that she has a boyfriend and they got together two weeks ago.
My final exams are soon enough, and during the whole semester I was unable to focus due to the fact that she was completely in my mind.
Now that I know that she has a boyfriend, and can not do something about it I'd like to focus on my studies to get some good grades.
The problem is that I can not focus at all, I keep thinking of her on a daily basis.
How can I forget her?
Kindly provide me some guidance in this critical situation, otherwise I'll fail all my exams this semester.
Most Helpful Girl
Hang out with other people and start dating other women. It's pointless to keep being obsessed over her and it won't amount to anything at all.1
Most Helpful Guy
Oh, I see that we are in the same boat unfortunately.
Well, listen. Give yourself some time, and you'll forget her.
As for me, I've realised that we can not get into a relationship for the time being. Thus, I've decided to build a friendship instead and see where it goes.
In my opinion, a friendship is as much important as a relationship.
I appreciate my current situation, since I'm able to talk to her and eventually I can ask her to come have a drink with friends and so on.
This was the only solution to my problem that I could get. Since, I can not be her boyfriend I can at least be a good friend for her.
Nothing to loose, it's a win/win either way.
Hoping that my solution can somehow help you out in your situation. Good luck dude, I know it is a hard time but you can move on and do things that you enjoy in your life ! ;)1