Ok a BBL is a Brazilian butt lift! It's when you take the fat from your abdominal area and transfer it to your butt to make it more full and plumpt. I always bring it up saying after we have our baby I want to be a hot mom! And get this done! I have been wanting this for ever. I just am attracted to big butt on women. Its hot to me! I always wanted to get this done ! Don't judge me on this people. Just give me feed back as to why my guy is totally against it. And he won't tell me why. He just says "no! you don't need it". and I no he likes big butts. maybe you guys can help me understand why he is so against it ...
Maybe he just wants you to feel good about the way you look now? You should feel flattered. I mean how would you feel if he was like "oh yeah you totally need it." Ya dig? Anyways at the end of the day it is your body therefore it is your decision so if you want it that bad, go for it.
The reason your boyfriend is not to fond of it, is he chose to be with you the way you are. He likely loves every inch of you in your natural state, so he doesn't want you to change for him or anyone else... he excepts you for your body and mind.
Sometimes it is best to just leave a good thing alone.
That being said... it is ultimately your decision... getting a BBL is not going to change how he feels about you. If he really cares, then you can get it done and the only thing he would be worried about is you making through surgery okay :)
He is against you changing yourself for whatever reason. Simply he likes you for who you are now and this is his way of thinking when it comes to the saying "I love my girl the way she is" hmm bad example. No no it's a good example 😁
Maybe he thinks you butt is big enough and he doesn't want you to mess it up
I like my gf's butt the way it is, and I'd probably be sad if she wanted cosmetic surgery. But it's also her choice, and... tbh, I'd probably like her after the surgery too ;) Your boyfriend may be similar.
It is your body, even though it is good to take into consideration your husbands opinion it is your decision in the end.
Don't argue with your Master. Do your best to please him
Well first of all it's gross. There's also risk involved with the original surgery and the healing process. There's also a chance that the tissue won't take and will just start rotting in your body. People have died after this surgery. He probably doesn't want to risk losing the woman he loves and an awesome mom.
Honestly, I think that you should look into noninvasive ways to get the butt you want like targeted muscle building.