Do guys lose interest if they feel like they don't have to work or "be the man" in order to win a girl's heart? Can girls make it too easy for a guy sometimes and by doing so stave him off?
Most Helpful Guy
No lol. I don't chase women. Every time I've ever gotten with a women it was because she made her self obviously available for me. That's when I make my move. If I catch her slipping and playing head games I'm usually out at that point. I think it's a matter of moderation though as with everything in life.
If a girl is texting you day and night then you might think that you are too good for her or she is desperate. At the same time if a girl is stone cold distant I would lose interest because I would much more fun with a girl who IS interested in me. So aim for that line in between.1
Most Helpful Girl
All of the guys I've talked to hate the chase. If you play hard to get, it'll backfire 99% of the time. Don't do it.
The only ones who would lose interest for "being easy" are players who aren't interested in you to begin with.
There's nothing wrong with contacting first, I always contact first and I have had a very easy time getting a boyfriend.0