I know its not all guys, and since I'm only 17 I have plenty of time to find someone. I'm attracted to guys in their 20s but only go for a 2-5 year age difference.
I see all these girls who look average, not stunning and not ugly who have the good looking boyfriend who treats her like a queen.. I just get so damn frustrated. I know that I have to focus on myself and what I want to do with my life. I already know what I want to do and who I am. Why do I keep running into assholes? This one guy I was talking to last night told me I don't know how to get back up after I have fallen because I don't know what real pain feels like.. I have been threw a lot of shit. Another told me to kill myself, the asshole guys just keep coming and I don't know what I do wrong. I hate girls because they're such bitches to me too. I understand you have to make yourself happy, but it gets lonely. I feel like I will never find that someone.. I'll include a pic so you can see what I look like.
If someone would help me understand why that would be awesome.. I'm just so lost and frustrated.
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Sweetie, I hear you. I used to be very naive and optimistic, but it seems like that only made me a target for people's cruelty.
Don't let it get to you. Most People are cruel. But there are good ones too. Don't hang out with world-class people. Hang out with people who are trying to better themselves and encourage you to do the same.
It's better to be completely alone and work on yourself (like me right now) than to have negative people in your life who will drag you down. Be brave and embrace it. Then make a plan for how you'll meet good people.3