Does making small talk with girls working in stores or cafes ever get you anywhere?

  • Yes.
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  • No.
    60% (3)64% (7)62% (10)Vote
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Most Helpful Girl

  • That's how I met my boyfriend. One day I was working at the fitting room and he just came up to me and started a small talk with me. I never realized he worked there with me or that he went to the same school as me. At first it was weird but since I was bored I talked to him. Then everyday he would come and talk to me then next thing I know I started liking him.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Where I used to work there was a BBQ restaurant I used to lunch at with co-workers; one of the waitresses was kind of cute and friendly. One day one of my co-workers wrote a note on a napkin as if it was from me and left it, something to the effect "I'm kind of shy but I'd really like to meet you outside work sometime"; he had been urging me to approach her. She not only didn't respond, but after that when I went there for lunch she would make sure someone else had our station, and she never spoke to me again. Another co-worker had gone to HS with her and said she was very conservative.

    I am generally very reluctant to hitting on girls at their work as they have to be there and it's not like they're doing it to get hit on.

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    • So where are good locations? And what about students who are doing these things part time?

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    • My course is male dominated

    • I know how that feels, having taken mostly math and sciences. But aren't there some organizations or activities you could get involved in? I had a friend who was a grad student and one of the girls in a class he was TA'ing asked him out. Of course he was a really good-looking guy.

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What Guys Said 4

  • From what I have heard, it does get you somewhere... as long as you're dignified about it, and not make her uncomfortable when she's on duty. And of course, provided she's single.

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  • It got me married , so yes the potential for it going some where is defanantly a possibility. After all they are just people like you and i

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    • When was that? How old were you both? And what happened?

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    • Yes I was 19 and she was 26 and had 3 kids. That was something I wish I could undo lol but it's part of what made me who I am today soooooo

    • I have literally been married most of my adult life lol

  • Bro... if she is interested in you... she will give u signs...
    if she is not attracted to u... im sorry mate.. no matter u talk to her for hours and hours...
    still u won't be able to get anywhere... u will always remain in the friendzone...

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  • It's gotten me somewhere. All the employees at my local coffee shop know me by name and vice versa. I love going there to socialize.

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