Let's say you just started dating this girl, you think she's so gorgeous and cool (maybe even out of your league), but she's shy and wants to take things slow. You won't be able to sleep with her for a couple months, but you still have to be exclusive. Would you be willing to wait it out, because she's special? Or, would you rather just call your quits and have sex with a bunch of average girls from tinder?
Wait it out/be patient
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Break it off and fuck girls who aren't anything special
I don't have a problem with waiting as long as there is a connection there. Often if a girl waits too long, it feels like we don't ever grow closer than just friends. Maybe this is the female equivalent to being friend zoned for not moving fast enough. If this happens the chemistry fades, and I don't want to see her anymore. I can wait for sex, but that doesn't mean that sexual tension is not important while waiting.
She also can't be holding me to a different standard than she has held other guys to. If she sleeps with other guys right away and makes me wait, then no I won't wait. I will just leave her and find a girl that will treat me as desirable as she has treated the other men in her past.
Depends on her. Is she the type that sleeps around but when she wants a relationship she takes it slow? If that's the case no, I won't wait, cause no, I'm not gonna be a fool.
If she's constant with her behavior and takes is slow with every guy, then I would wait a couple months, but I won't wait more than 3, that's way too much, and clearly we don't have the same view about sex.
By the way, if she actually thinks that she is out of my league, then I'd break up with her at that moment itself. I don't want to be in a relationship where I'm constantly being reminded, directly or indirectly, that she is 'better' than me.
I have turned down friends with benefits with very attractive girls because I want to wait until marriage for sex, and for non religious reasons even, also I don't believe in leagues, but no I don't care if it means I die alone, I'll hold out for that beautiful girl who wants something real over any sweet/plain Jane, or bitch/model girl.
How is she special? Making me wait is not a good thing. That takes a notch off out of the "special" scale... Still, I would be ready to wait, if I feel she is worth it. I wouldn't wait just because she thinks she is special though. That's self-entitlement and I will run away from that.