Let's say you just started dating this girl, you think she's so gorgeous and cool (maybe even out of your league), but she's shy and wants to take things slow. You won't be able to sleep with her for a couple months, but you still have to be exclusive. Would you be willing to wait it out, because she's special? Or, would you rather just call your quits and have sex with a bunch of average girls from tinder?
- Wait it out/be patientVote A
- Break it off and fuck girls who aren't anything specialVote B
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I don't have a problem with waiting as long as there is a connection there. Often if a girl waits too long, it feels like we don't ever grow closer than just friends. Maybe this is the female equivalent to being friend zoned for not moving fast enough. If this happens the chemistry fades, and I don't want to see her anymore. I can wait for sex, but that doesn't mean that sexual tension is not important while waiting.
She also can't be holding me to a different standard than she has held other guys to. If she sleeps with other guys right away and makes me wait, then no I won't wait. I will just leave her and find a girl that will treat me as desirable as she has treated the other men in her past.1