How can you tell she's keeping you around as a backup?
Signs a girl is keeping you as a backup?
What Girls Said 9
As wise as I am her, dear, if she is Talking or even Texting Today and Tomorrow you are Not hearing Anything, she may be looking and lurking somewhere else and then Suddenly... One day out of the clear blue come find You. It also can Happen when if you both are Dating and mating.
If she has a full circle problem pattern of Doing this and Screwing you with This, then you are what I call a "Back pocket boyfriend."
Good luck. xx0
If she frequently cancels plans and reschedules at the last minute That could be a sign that she putting other guys before u0
She says" thanks but maybe later" when you ask her out.0
She never initiates any communication, dates or invitations.0
I have never heard of that0
What Guys Said 7
She ignores you, you aren't one of her priorities, she cancels dates at the last minute, she only has time for you when she feels like it, she tells you she doesn't know what she wants, etc... as a guy who went through all this, just forget about it bro. you aren't a backup plan, you can be someones first choice if your not holding on to some dumbass bitch who ends up being a single mom.1
When she will hang out with you when it suits her or cancels often at the last minute. Or when she doesn't seem into you when your together.0
Simple, you'll feel like that's what's going on if you're honest with yourself about it.0
watch her social media,. girls always talk about their relationships, if she's talking shit bout her boyfriend then she hits u up ur only a back up0
my advice. run as far as you can. speaking from experience.0