I luke this mutual friend of mine. My friend tells me he's been hurt twice and a row and left for someone else. He's was already really insecure and shy. We flirted and fooled around twice while we were drunk. He has not initiated hanging out or texting me since. I still see him all the time in groups. Problem is I'm extremely shy as well. I sometimes even act more quiet around him or ignore him because I don't want to make it too obvious I like him in case he doesn't like me back. Is there a chance he likes me but is really too shy and insecure to initiate sober?
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It's almost certain that you are guessing correctly; he's too beaten up by past experiences to risk telling you his feelings. But don't try to get him drunk, you'll never know his real feelings that way.
Invite him for coffee or something informal where there won't be other people noticing...2