is dating apps pointless if you want something more than just a hook up? it seems like the guys that wants to take you out and are looking for something serious aren't the cute guys. I like the average cute guys, i stay away from the guys with ripped muscles and no shirt on his pics and the model looking guys.. I go for the guys with great smiles, i have very few expectations towards the really good looking guys.
But even the average cute guys aren't interested in something serious, so it seems like i either have to chose between looks or personality it seems like.
Sometimes i feel like im just lying to myself by thinking there is the smalles chance of meeting a cute guy who wants to date. I would meet people irl, but i rarely go out because i dont have anyone to go out with, non of my friends date at all...
Most Helpful Guy
I have used Tinder off and on for about a year and a half. I ultimately stopped messaging girls because I only ever wanted a hook up but all the girls I met wanted to date me. Then I matched a girl who knew a coworker. I sent her a corny pickup line to make him laugh. We started talking and dated for a couple months. I fell in love with her. It didn't work out, but she was the only girl I've ever loved. So you never know.0
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Most Helpful Girl
I met my current boyfriend on POF over 10 months ago and never looked back. He is very good looking (girls check him out with me right there), incredibly tall and toned. Fantastic sense of humor, very intelligent and outgoing. I did go through a fair amount of losers first, but I stuck with it because with my work schedule meeting men is impossible. I wouldn't take back one meaningless date with anyone else if it meant never meeting him. Now I have it all and can't imagine life without him. Sheer perfection.
I did opt to pay for the services because it seems the serious people are those who pay.
Perseverance is the key. Don't give up, and don't listen to bitter folks who haven't gotten lucky and gave up before they could. Consider online dating as just another tool in the search for something meaningful.0