Hmm maybe they realized ways in which they are incompatible while thinking about the situation objectively. The problem with emotions is that they're rarely logical and we can't turn them off even if we think they're unreasonable.
well if she clearly told me, that she has no feelings for me and doesn´t want to date me but likes me as a friend: for what reason should i still try to start something with her? it´s a big waste of time.
I've had a crush on a girl for a very long time. It was love at first sight for me. Since we haven't had much contact in real life, I have contacted her through social media. But she just doesn't seem to be into me. Every time I talked to her on the internet, she has just replied to what I wrote, not doing anything to further the conversation. I asked her out for coffee at one point, but got never a reply to that. She is basically just being nice to me, but it's fairly obvious she does not like me. But I can't get over her. I feel that at this point, after so long, asking her out would be seen as creepy. And if I confessed my feelings I would possibly destroy what chances I had. But because I have not been rejected, I still have hope. And that hope, is killing me. At this point, I just want to be rejected or see that she gets a boyfriend. Because that would kill all remaining hope, and enable me to finally move on.