She met this guy at work a few months ago, she tells me that he's gay but I don't think he is because he flirts with her and I don't think she knows. But she said I miss you to him over social media and it kind of bothers me is that normal?
bruh, get over it. you aren't the only guy or person in her life. she can miss other people. and why would he pretend to be gay (actually, i can think of a few reasons)? anyways, gay dudes are naturally flirty with girls. they can get 50x as much pussy than any straight dude. 1 of my best friends in high school was gay. he'd straight up go to girls and just feel up their boobs. none of them gave a shit. and it's over social media. don't be a pussy. what is she gonna do? virtually fuck him?
why do you think that he is not really gay? What do you qualify as flirting? I mean, "girlfriends" do flirty stuff. My girlfriends and I are very flirty touchy feely with one another. I tell my friends I miss them too.
I think, you should meet him and get those doubts out of the way.
yes , it is normal for you to be bothered as you care about her. but you should realize your self worth and if you think that she is cheating on you , then leave her. i know it would be hard for you but that would be the best decision. your girlfriend should never say or text something like that to any other male. GOOD LUCK !!😃😃
It's not. You are not the only person in her life. He is a friend to her, and it's OK to miss your friends. Even if it's a guy. Try and remember that you are the one she has chosen to date, and be secure in that. Don't get all insecure and jealous and ruin a relationship over some nonexistent competition for her affection.