Told a guy I didn't want a relationship and he started treating me like a friend?

So I like this guy but I am in a really weird phase in my life right now where I can't have a relationship. He was really upset about it and stopped talking to me for a few days and all the sudden now he's texting me all the time but it's not the same as before he's kinda treating me like a friend.

Do you think he's over it?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • How do you expect him to be treating you?

    The only way people will treat 'not a relationship' is 'we're fuck buddies' or 'we're friends'.

    Is he interpreting things wrong, or were you imagining things would magically stay on the cusp of a relationship, or do you actually want a relationship and just think you're being logical.

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    • well I mean I definitely didn't want to be friends... maybe just take things super slow but whatever I guess it's my fault.

      So he doesn't like me anymore then?

    • His feelings won't change instantly, but they will with time.

      What do you actually want?

Most Helpful Girl

  • He might be. He probably realized that the two of you could be good as just friends too.

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What Guys Said 4

  • I think he took what time he needed to come to terms with it and he is accepting that he won't have a romantic role in your life. If you want something with him now or in the future you need to communicate that with him. Men can't read minds after all.

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  • I told a random guy the same thing, he just looked at me funny... smh street people

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  • Either he is or is just dealing with the rejection in his own way (being nice for the sake of being nice and no other reason) aka, he's in denial.

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  • You rejected him... What do you want then?

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