I've been dating a girl now for 1 month. When we met she told me she was 19 and I believed her. Well yesterday she told me she was really 16!! I asked why she lied and she said I wouldn't like her if I knew her real age. Should I break up with her? I love her so much and 16 is legal in my country. I'm not sure what to do about her
Well if 16 is the legal age of of majority in your country (like if you have sex with her then it won't be statutory rape), then I don't think there's a problem. But she still lied to you though. That's a red flag to me, like what else is she lying about? That's what I'd be wondering. I don't think it's a good idea to continue dating someone who bases the relationship on a lie.
Duh. Of course you should break up with her. Your relationship was built on a lie. She knew what she did was wrong when she was doing it. So should you really be trying to continue a relationship with a *child* that lies?
*Summons Chris Hansen once again.* Just because something's "legal" doesn't mean it's right. Alcohol and getting drunk is legal, but it doesn't mean you should consume it/over dose on it. Especially since it comes with doing something illegal if you make one wrong move. i2.kym-cdn.com/.../143712jm1.jpg
16 might be legal in your country but have fun dealing with her parents! ( Im sure there not too happy she dating a much older man) I think 16 is too young you dont know yourself or make smart decisions at 16. i think it you trul 'Loved" her you would wait a few more years till she mentally and possibly physically matured...
1 month you will still be in the rose tinted glasses phase. And she just told you she lied about something rather considerable. I would advocate taking a step back. Slow it down. examine how you really feel about that and consider breaking it off. I would say that thats too big of an age gap. And either she will grow up soon and get very angry that you dont... Or you'll completely dominate her. She's a kid.