I am waiting to have intercourse, if that's what you mean. I'm okay with other things with my current boyfriend. A lot of people take sex for granted... I'll tell you why I don't. At the age of 16, I was date raped. I wanted to save it for marriage (not for religious reasons, but for emotional reasons), and now its even more dear to me. That horrible man doesn't have my virginity, he tried to steal it but that can't happen.. You can't steal sex, only rape... So when I actually do give it to someone, its going to be someone so damn special that I married them. :) PS. I'm proud if you OP for sticking to your guns! You do you. :p
We all have our own rights to our virginities and when we decide to give it up.
I classify losing my virginity as 'just getting rid of it'... but I do not regret it. It is what I wanted at the time and he asked me several times if I was sure before continuing.
I didn't wait -- my reason being is I'm not even sure if I want to get married! And even if I do the foundation of a marriage is based on sex... I don't want to wait until marriage to find out if we are compatible in bed.
Nope, not me - lost my V-card a while ago (in college, of course). No regrets about it.
It's not anything to be ashamed about if you wait until marriage to have sex. I actually commend people for that - all the people with this mindset whom I've met are extremely loyal and honest (or follow a religious doctrine) men and women. They want to only be intimate with "the one" and stay with him/her forever. And I respect that 100%.
These people are a rare breed, but I salute them and am confident that they'll get the best.
well, i hope being sexually compatible is enough when he's off screwing his next conquest, or when you realize that's that's the only compatibility you have with the other person. sex has become far too prioritized.
No, the reason being that I believe sexual chemistry is a very important component to a relationship. I found out that there is no way to tell when I lost my virginity. I got along great with a girl we clicked we dated for two months before. we felt sexual tension and were attracted to each other but when we actually had sex the chemistry just wasn't there. I never thought that we wouldn't be compatible but we weren't.
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