I have never had a girlfriend. I have masturbated a lot though. Since I was a kid. Sex was my main driving force to get a girlfriend. Now that I have a sexdoll. I don't really care about getting a girlfriend. I am pretty happy on my own. My problem is... I don't want to look like a loser in front of other people. So a girlfriend would be good for that. What should I do?
Most Helpful Girl
My question to you is: are these people paying your bills? Your rent/mortgage? Who cares what other people think. If they think you're a loser than you need new friends or s better social group. Don't get a girlfriend just to have one. You'll get her hopes up and she will be wasting her time when you're only using her as a billboard.
Now, once you're ready for a girlfriend you should try Match or Tinder. Meet up for coffee (no drinks unless you're looking for a hookup) and get to know her. Having a relationship is good for some people and for others not so much. Once again, forget what society says. It's 2015.2
Most Helpful Guy
Why are you so worried about what others think and judge? Did you already tell all of these "other people" about your private life in real life already? Is that why you would feel embarrassed about it?
If you have lots of money then maybe you can be (or at least offer to be) some desperate girl's sugar daddy or something. It's going to be a strictly for business kind of thing, but you must absolutely make it clear to her about it and stuff.
Something along the lines that if you help her with as many financial needs as possible that in exchange she helps to keeps you company and help 'create the illusion' that you guys are actually dating and in a "serious" committed relationship. Just to this for at least for as long as you think you would actually need to. All just so those "other people" that actually paid attention to you would stopped thinking and judging you are some "loser".
Once those "other people", or you think those "other people" had stopped noticing and judging you then you can decide to either continue in this kind of fake relationship of convenience or split and go your separate ways.0