I have never had a girlfriend. I have masturbated a lot though. Since I was a kid. Sex was my main driving force to get a girlfriend. Now that I have a sexdoll. I don't really care about getting a girlfriend. I am pretty happy on my own. My problem is... I don't want to look like a loser in front of other people. So a girlfriend would be good for that. What should I do?
My question to you is: are these people paying your bills? Your rent/mortgage? Who cares what other people think. If they think you're a loser than you need new friends or s better social group. Don't get a girlfriend just to have one. You'll get her hopes up and she will be wasting her time when you're only using her as a billboard.
Now, once you're ready for a girlfriend you should try Match or Tinder. Meet up for coffee (no drinks unless you're looking for a hookup) and get to know her. Having a relationship is good for some people and for others not so much. Once again, forget what society says. It's 2015.
Why are you so worried about what others think and judge? Did you already tell all of these "other people" about your private life in real life already? Is that why you would feel embarrassed about it?
If you have lots of money then maybe you can be (or at least offer to be) some desperate girl's sugar daddy or something. It's going to be a strictly for business kind of thing, but you must absolutely make it clear to her about it and stuff.
Something along the lines that if you help her with as many financial needs as possible that in exchange she helps to keeps you company and help 'create the illusion' that you guys are actually dating and in a "serious" committed relationship. Just to this for at least for as long as you think you would actually need to. All just so those "other people" that actually paid attention to you would stopped thinking and judging you are some "loser".
Once those "other people", or you think those "other people" had stopped noticing and judging you then you can decide to either continue in this kind of fake relationship of convenience or split and go your separate ways.
Sex dolls don't hold you at night, but whatever works for you. Also, a girlfriend is more than copulation. What you sound like you'd prefer is someone that you have no strings attached sex with. Why not visit a brothel?
As for your last question, there will be people who think you are a loser no matter what you do. Stop caring about what other people think.
😒are you serious? You make it sound like you only wanted one for sex so having an actual connection is out. If you have been trying to find a woman you can connect with, then are you sure you are into women that way?(not even kidding). Anyway, do not get a woman because you don't want to look like a loser. Most women in their 20s+ want serious relationships that could eventually result in getting married and building a life together. You would be wasting your time and hers.
Don't worry about looking like a "loser" Society has brainwashed and conditioned in men's heads that if they can't get a woman, its always their own fault, and they're "losers". That's some BS. Standards get higher everyday because guys even ones who can get a woman with little to no problems, act desperate thirsty and over compensate for female attention, so that makes it harder for guys who don't have the looks and/or money.