OK, there this girl I've been friends with for awhile and I finally told her I liked her over text. A few days later we talked and I told her, "I like you and its as simple as that." She didn't say anything and then I asked her, "Can I get a response." She said, "I don't know what to say." I asked her, "Do you want me to make it simple?" She nodded and I went in for a kiss. I kissed her for a minute and then backed off a little then asked, "Do you get it?" She nodded again and then we continued. A few minutes later she starts to cry. I comforted her, but she said, "I have to go home." So I gave her a goodnight kiss and she left. We didn't talk till the next night over text when she said she only wants to be friends. What did I do?
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I think you rushed a little bit and she became uncomfortable. You approach was extremely forthright and this can work in some cases, it depends on the girl. However, the girl needs to feel like she has a say in things too. She was shocked by your admission and that's why she didn't know what to say. Then, you kissed her and it put her on overload. I think you should have told her how you felt and then give her time to process it. I wouldn't have gone for the kiss because I think it was too soon. You could have kissed her hand, cheek or gave her a hug. This is what I think.2