So my boyfriend commented on a girls picture "really brings out your boobs and sparkly eyes" (laughing emoji) Then on one of her different pictures she posted a dress she wanted to buy and it was really innapropriate and he commented "sexy" (smirking face) I asked him about it and he just said it was a joke. And he was like "cant take a joke?" We have also been dating for over 9 months. We took a slight break from eachother once during our relationship though and the girl said that during this break he asked her for nudes. So what should I do?
Nudes would be not okay and I would never make a comment as a joke. But I make comments about clothes all of the time to people that I genuinely care about and those who want an honest opinion. My girlfriends knows that I will always be hers and that she has nothing to worry about, unless I become a fictional character apparently.
If you're not comfortable with what he's doing and you told him... he should stop. What he's doing is nothing crazy for you to be upset about, you have a legitimate reason to be upset about this. If you feel like taking a stronger stance, go for it.
I would keep your distance. No man says those things unless they are trying to flirt
Stop stalking his page or break up with him. It wasn't a joke it was a compliment and you seem way too controlling. You don't own him.