First impressions are based on looks and what is said. Therfore looks and responses makes it easier to determine whether I will or will not like a person. Some people just look so rude and easily annoyed; when they began to talk their voice conveys there feelings. So yeah, if they look and sound mean, I tend to stay away. In my opinion.
If you mean for dating then yeah looks matter first and then personality. I have to be attracted to you physically in order to want to know you personally. But this applies to me, I don't know about anyone else.
Both, but mostly personality. If they don't take care of themselves moderately well, in ways of hygiene, fitness, etc, then I may make someobservations about them. However, their personality is obviously more important.
I've talked about this with my friends a lot. People say you should like someone for their personality, but if I am not attracted to the person I can't have a relationship with the person.
If they have a wonderful personality but am not attractive to me, we could be best of friends, but nothing more. Although if you are attractive to me, then a wonderful personality on top of that is a huge plus.
looks first. think about what you do when unaesthetic person sits next to you. think how you behave at fat people. think what are your reactions with such people. think how many fat/ugly friends you have. think how many times you've actually been with fat/ugly people and how it ended, if it begun at all. think, you will be surprised.
I think it definitely starts out with looks. You don't decide to talk to someone just because. Generally speaking anyway, especially when it comes to significant others. You begin a conversation because you initially thought that person was attractive. You fall in love with some one for their personality though. It starts out with looks then becomes more about who they are as a person.
A guy doesn't have to be the hottest thing since cheese and rice... It's about how they treat people. I do find it kinda ridiculous that some judge off looks but they're the type of guy who won't even brush their hair.
Both. I try to get to know someone before I make a judgement about then. Most of the time I make a judgement based solely on their personality. Although, Sometimes I can take one look at a person before getting to know them, and I instantly know they can't be trusted. I'm a highly perceptive person. It's like a 6th sense I have 😊
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