Say you're talking to a new person and you get along really well; lots of chemistry, flirting, common interests, physical attraction etc.
Do you tend to develop feelings quickly for that person or are you guarded with them for a while and keep your heart on lockdown?
Why do you think you're this way?
- I'm charmin soft. I develop feelings quickly.Vote A
- I'm a total hardass. Not even being shot in the ass with all of Cupid's arrows could make me fall for them.Vote B
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Naturally soft as Charmin but constantly getting hurt has caused a wall to form. The Charmin is still there, it's just protected by layers. I try to keep my feelings at bay when I like someone. And when I feel myself becoming attached or like I'm coming off as clingy, then I automatically distance myself. Defense mechanism and all that good stuff.2
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