Is this true? That's what my mother said, if you're a black dude, white girls will usually automatically see you as a friend, but they'll never see you as anything else. She was trying to explain my shitty luck in dating.
My dating history would be a lot darker of that were true.
I do know it's harder for some white girls to see themselves with a black guy in a relationship, but that's just a mental picture. Numerous girl I've been with never thought they'd date a black guy. Not that they were put off. They just never saw it in their head. Plus a lot of white families have somewhat racist older relatives like grand parent that may have grown up in a racist house hold.
When it really comes down to it.. Men are men and women are women. I know this oversimplifies things because there are loads of other factors but we are living in an increasingly diverse world. Interracial relationships and marriages are growing exponentially. Seriously just be confident and keep putting yourself out there. I'm sure there will be plenty of white girls and girls of other backgrounds who notice you.