Is this true? That's what my mother said, if you're a black dude, white girls will usually automatically see you as a friend, but they'll never see you as anything else. She was trying to explain my shitty luck in dating.
Most Helpful Girl
oh for the love of god, stop playing victim! that could not be further from the truth, no offence to ur mum.2
Most Helpful Guy
My dating history would be a lot darker of that were true.
I do know it's harder for some white girls to see themselves with a black guy in a relationship, but that's just a mental picture. Numerous girl I've been with never thought they'd date a black guy. Not that they were put off. They just never saw it in their head. Plus a lot of white families have somewhat racist older relatives like grand parent that may have grown up in a racist house hold.0